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I've lived in Canon City my whole life. It makes me sick to think of where this country is headed. The solutions are in God's Word.
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Good Social Tips

This is important, even if not on the general topic of this website. I’m copying it from Quora. Here it is:

Growing up, I was one of the shyest and most socially awkward people you’d ever meet.

I didn’t know how to hold eye contact.

I didn’t know how to hold a conversation.

And I sure as heck didn’t know how to get a beautiful woman to go on a date with me.

… Today it’s a slightly different story.

Today, I get to party with multimillionaires and celebrities like Ashton Kutcher, Lance Armstrong, Naveen Jain (billionaire founder of Moon Express), and even Matthew McConaughey (alright, alright, alright).

I don’t say this to brag.

But rather to impress upon you that the tactics I’m about to share WORK.

Being charismatic and socially adept is not a skill you are born with.

…It’s not genetic.

It’s not something you are cursed with.

It’s a skill…

And if you’re willing to take the time to develop it, it’s a skill that can (and will) change your life in every appreciable way.

Here are a few tips to improve your social skills and become a social powerhouse.

1. Speak Less, Listen More

This is the golden rule of social success.

People don’t really care about you… This might sound harsh, but it’s true.

People care, first and foremost, about themselves. This is simply human nature.

If you want to unlock the hidden social genius that is inside of you, then you need to accept this fact and use it to your advantage.

In any social situation, your goal should always be to do about 20% of the talking and 80% of the listening.

Ask people genuine questions. Get to know them. Be genuinely curious about who they are and how they work.

Sure…

You can talk about yourself and share stories from your life, but this should only account for 20–30% of any given interaction.

Instead, spend the majority of your time focused on the other person and I promise you will seem like the most likeable and charismatic person in the room.

If you’re ever at a loss for words, remember this magic phrase…

“So you said … Tell me more about that”

2. Learn How to Tell a Joke

People love to laugh.

If you can learn how to make them laugh you will instantly boost your social value and increase your likeability.

The best way that I’ve found to improve your sense of humor and tell better jokes is to watch hours and hours of stand up comedy.

Guys and gals like

  • Joe Rogan
  • Ari Schaffir
  • John Mullaney
  • Eliza Schlesinger (or however you spell it)
  • Sarah Silverman
  • Whitney Cummings
  • Chris Rock
  • Dave Chapelle

Are all hilarious individuals who will help you develop a vast repertoire of comedic material and learn how to tell and deliver a joke like a pro.

3. Enthusiasm Always Wins

In any social situation, the most enthusiastic person always wins.

Before you go into any social situation, I recommend that you take 10 minutes to get “In State” by listening to a song that motivates you and pumps you up and dance/jump around the room.

This sounds silly but it will help you develop the right energy to succeed in a social setting.

Enthusiasm is contagious.

When someone is excited and brings high levels of energy to the table, even the most mundane task can become an absolute joy.

Enthusiasm always wins.

So get some… Enthusiasm that is.

4. Smile

A smile goes a long way.

Scientists have found that people who smile more are more attractive, healthier, and more likely to have strong social connections.

So smile more.

Watch lots of comedies.

Listen to funny podcasts.

Hang out with people who make you smile.

The more you smile the happier you will be and the more attractive you will appear.

So turn that frown upside down and smile baby smile!

5. Hold Eye Contact (But Don’t Be Creepy)

Eye contact is an important part of social success, but it’s easy to overdo it.

I recommend that you hold eye contact for 4–5 seconds before slowly breaking it away and then reengaging a few seconds later.

Whenever you are holding eye contact it can be easier to look at a person’s mouth, nose, or forehead since they can’t actually tell the difference.

Strong eye contact is a sign of confidence and it makes people take you more seriously and listen to what you have to say.

It’s also incredibly seductive.

A man or woman who can hold great eye contact is a man or woman who is attractive to the opposite (or same) sex.

6. Speak Your Truth

One of the sexiest things that you can do in any social situation is to speak your truth.

This doesn’t mean that you have a hall pass to simply be a jerk and berate people.

It simply means that you can and should express your feelings in an appropriate way.

If you want to do something, say it.

If someone said something that was inappropriate and offensive to your group, call them out on it.

If you think someone is cute, express it.

If someone is getting on your last nerve, mention it.

Don’t hide behind dishonesty and half truths.

Speak your truth and say what you mean.

People won’t always like it, but the right people will always respect it.

7. Use People’s Names

Your name is one of the most powerful words in your entire vocabulary.

In fact, researchers have found that when you hear your name a completely different part of your brain activates than when you hear any other word.

Use this to your advantage.

Always try to use people’s names in conversation.

Drop their names casually and regularly without overdoing it.

This is a simple subconscious hack that will make others like you more and make you seem more attractive.

8. Make Other People Look Good

The biggest social hack that I know of is to make other people look good.

People love to talk about themselves.

But do you know what they like even more?

… When other people talk about them in a positive way.

Anytime you are out with friends, always try to tell stories and jokes that make the other people in your social circle look good.

Tell stories about times when your friends did something crazy, cool, or impressive.

Go out of your way to make the people in your social circle feel special and it will pay dividends in your social success.

9. Give Genuine Compliments

For whatever reason, our society seems to have lost the ability to give a genuine compliment.

Men are scared that if they compliment a woman they will seem creepy or if they compliment another man they will seem “Gay” (not that this should be considered an insult but that’s just how society is).

But this is all bull crap!

When you genuinely compliment someone, they will appreciate it.

If they don’t…

Well, they probably weren’t worth having in your social circle in the first place.

Give genuine compliments on a regular basis and I promise you will see a massive increase in your social capital and charisma.

10. Present Yourself Well

While I wish I could tell you that looks don’t matter.

…I’d be lying to you.

How you present yourself to the world MATTERS.

People make split second judgement based on your appearance and, even though this might not be fair, it’s the reality that we live in.

As such, it’s important that you:

  • Practice good hygiene
  • Smell great
  • Dress appropriately with clothes that fit your body
  • Whiten your teeth
  • Get a good tan
  • Exercise regularly
  • And look the part

You don’t have to be traditionally beautiful to be a social powerhouse.

But you do need to put some effort into putting your best foot forward and presenting yourself well.

Stay Grounded,
Andrew

Reject Socialism, Taxation

Mafia Supporter

A had a Facebook conversation with a guy who can’t answer why it’s acceptable for government to force people to pay for things (aka theft). In fact, the vast majority of people are just like him. I’ve asked this question to many people and have never got a good answer. Here’s the conversation:

ME: Taxation is theft. Abolish public school.

John: Then you need to live on a little island all by yourself?? And be cut off from the rest of society that is funded by those very tax dollars?? That I know you have some sort of benefits from??

ME: So you have no problem with forcing people to pay for things they don’t want?

John: Take your child to a private school and pay for it yourself?? Thats your right.. No one stopping you.. But not with tax dollars..

ME: you seem to be refusing to respond to my argument. Why do you think it’s acceptable to force people to pay for things they don’t want?

I’m opposed to forcing you to pay for other people’s children’s private school tuition. I’d appreciate you not being in favor of forcing me to pay for things I don’t want.

John: You have the answer?? You just don’t like the one that was provided.. Go whare you please?? For your children education.. If you go private?? No public tax dollars are going with you..

ME: So if you lived in certain parts of New York at various times in the past where the Mafia forced people to pay for protection, you’d tell the victims something like, “Tough luck. If you don’t like living in Mafia-run areas, you should move.”?

John: Even back then?? That was and is a option..

But seriously the mafia has nothing to do with our public education system.. So your analogy is not accurate..

ME: You haven’t answered the question. Why is it acceptable for government to force people to pay for things they don’t want? You’ve suggested an option for what to do about the situation but you haven’t explained why it’s acceptable.

The analogy between government and the Mafia is perfect. The Mafia provided services and forced people to pay for the services. Feel free to explain why it was acceptable for the Mafia to force people to pay them–not what their victims’ options were, but why it’s acceptable.

John: Do you at your place of employment have to abide by there rules ,regulations, policies?? If so you should know why? If you don’t like any of that?? You are free to leave and go somewhere else?? Something applies for the school district.

As your work place is? Also school district?? Their not a democracy… They have here rules, policies, standards, curriculum to meet.. Theres no difference.

ME: You are unable to answer my simple question I’ve asked over and over. You can have the last word.

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The Enslavement of a South Korean Band–BTS

BTS is a South Korean band, and I’ll admit I’ve never heard of them, but they make a ton of money. They’ve been drafted by the military and will serve a couple years.

Not everything is about money, but it is an excellent measure of what something is worth. What we are paid for our time is an excellent measure of how well we’re serving other people. Obviously, the most profitable use of these guys’ time is making music. As soldiers they’re not using their time wisely. They produce probably about $20,000 per year of value as soldiers.

What’s a good word for describing when someone is forced to work and not properly compensated for their time and talents? Could it be “slavery”?

There’s no doubt that the draft is slavery, unless someone is doing something voluntarily, it’s slavery. You could make the argument that more normally-compensated people getting drafted, and getting paid a sodier’s wage that is nearly equivalent to what they normally make wouldn’t be slavery. But if they are being forced to do a job they don’t want to do, it’s still slavery.

Of course, we no longer have a draft in the U.S. Has slavery of this sort come to an end for us? Looking at it from the BTS example, we all face a milder form of slavery through taxation. They say that a portion of the money we earn, which represents a portion of our time doesn’t belong to us. It belongs to the various levels of government. We aren’t directly enslaved, but we face partial enslavement.

Taxation is theft. Slavery is one specific method of committing the sin of theft–stealing someone’s time and talents. Taxation is theft and it is also more specifically, slavery.

Everything any government does that is useful and worthwhile could be done voluntarily through people volunteering their time or donating or directly paying for a service. If it wasn’t useful (99% of what they do) it won’t get funded or sold.

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Church Isn’t The Place for Serious Christians

That title is the most provocative chapter title from a great book by Stephen Perks. It is free as both a pdf or audio. It’s short and says so many of the things I’ve been thinking.

Here’s the link.

One of the most important things he points out is that Jesus said we are to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness. That isn’t just personal piety. It’s seeking to build God’s kingdom and seeking justice. We aren’t to seek first to plant churches or go to church every Sunday or invite people to church or spend tons of time around the church or have our lives revolve around church. “Church” isn’t even the biblical word for the 501c3 corporations or Sunday morning event. “Church” is the body of Christ–all believers make up the church. Almost nothing about the Sunday morning deal is in the Bible. We’re not commanded to do anything on Sunday morning or any other particular day. We’re to love other people and seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness.

Here’s a meme I saw on Facebook recently.

I don’t know who Brian Suave is, but this was reposted by a pastor. Of course, a pastor wants people to build their lives around the church. That’s a cult as far as I’m concerned. Stephen Perks calls it a mystery cult. The mystery is in opposition to building God’s kingdom. I’ve experienced it and it’s almost always true, at least 99% of the time.

We are supposed to do some of those things as far as serving others and building God’s kingdom, but there is simply nothing in Scripture about doing anything like the meme says.

The church as we know it is good for nothing but being thrown out and trampled as it is salt that has lost its savor. It is failed and salt that’s lost it’s savor cannot be restored but can only be thrown out.

I definitely recommend downloading the book.

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Amazing Keto

It feels premature for me to say that the keto diet is great when I’m still losing weight with it (though I’ve now lost 40 pounds). I’ve been watching this guy’s videos, and it seems like over and over keto solves a health problem. I mention to my wife that keto fixes this or keto fixes that, and she just laughs because she doesn’t yet believe that it can fix so many things.

This video is about fertility issues, and I watched it because we were praying for a couple that is having that problem. But they do mention a lot of amazing things beyond just fertility. They say doctors would be out of business if everyone did keto. There would only be doctors for emergencies and infections and old age.

Obviously, I’m excited about this, and now we just need to figure out if this video would be appropriate to send to our friends. Neither of these guys are Christians, but they have this figured out at least. They say so many things that are contrary to what we’ve all heard that it’s a breath of fresh air.

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The Greatest Servant

Nick Perez says something to think about for sure:

“The greatest among you will be your servant.”

~Jesus

The Satanic State (executive governments from Washington, DC on down to your local City Hall) is the greatest servant in the culture. This is how the Church lost the culture. Did you think the devil is dumb?

How do we reverse it? I used to think a big part was by petitioning the Satanic State to abolish abortion. Give it a shot if you want, and prove the devil right, because he thinks we’re dumb. So how do we reverse it? Start a local business. Serve your community. Feed the poor. Evangelize. Educate. Be the greatest servant.


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One Less Cop Supporter

I stopped supporting cops in 2007 when I was harassed by cops and threatened with arrest while evangelizing on a public sidewalk. Those cops demonstrated zero knowledge of the law or the Constitution. They were retarded.

What the guy in this video says reminds me a lot of my situation. He did everything they said and demonstrated that he wasn’t drunk, but was still arrested.

The cops in this video showed how stupid they were. They showed they’re not interested in protecting anyone’s rights. Their victim says in the video that he no longer supports police.

Police are a satanic organization funded by socialism. There is zero biblical basis for their existence.

The next lesson to learn is: DON’T TALK TO POLICE!

That is your right and men have died for it. If you don’t use your rights, you may as well not have them.

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Is Anarchy Correct?

Anarcho-capitalists have taught me a lot. My worldview is informed by the Bible, and I think a lot of what even unbelieving anarchists say is more biblical than the typical Christian. Anarcho-capitalists are willing to say provocative things to make you think. I will describe the proper, biblical form of government, and if that’s anarchy, fine, and if not, fine.

Romans 13 is the clearest New Testament passage on government. Romans 13:4 says that the magistrates’ only job is to be God’s servants to carry out God’s wrath on the evildoer. It’s not their job to educate kids, give out welfare, maintain roads, inspect buildings or anything else. So, we can eliminate 90%-95% of government right there. That leaves us with the criminal justice system.

But Romans 13 is not an exhaustive passage about government and how they are to punish evildoers. The Bible doesn’t allow government to do whatever it wants as long as they’re only punishing evildoers. Romans 13 is presupposing that you know what the Old Testament says. The Old Testament does give us adequate information about what government should be.

Let’s look at the criminal justice system.

Are cops biblical? No. Cops didn’t exist in this country until the 1840s. There are no cops in Scripture. There shouldn’t be a socialist-funded force roaming around looking for crimes. And as if cops protect anyone, that should be done yourself and with the help of your neighbors or you can hire a security company if you’re really worried.

Is prison biblical? No. Prison is an unust punishment. Why should the people have to pay for the food and shelter of criminals? Rape, murder, kidnapping are death penalty crimes. Other crimes such as assault or theft require restitution.

Is taxation biblical? Romans 13 says you ought to pay your taxes, but the Old Testament doesn’t say there’s a criminal penalty for not paying your taxes. It might be a sin, but it’s not a crime. Taxes are essentially voluntary, and only for a government that’s acting as God’s servants.

We’re down to about 1% of our current government. Courts are the only biblical function of government, but what does a biblical court system look like? The courts are made up of judges who are the wiser, older guys around who know God’s law and can judge righteously. There might be a volunteer judge on your street who might judge the occasional case from your neighborhood. Maybe there’s another judge in your part of the city who’s a little more experienced in tougher cases. The highest judge might be a guy in your town who can handle serious, death-penalty cases. The death penalty is carried out first by the witnesses against the perpetrator in the trial and then by the townspeople.

Ideally, all the participants are volunteers, or maybe there are professional judges that are paid by court fees from civil trials or voluntary taxation. I call myself an anarcho-capitalist or anarcho-reconstructionist. Would the anarchists I respect such as Larken Rose, Jeff Berwick, or Doug Casey call me an anarchist? I don’t know for sure. I’d guess that since I say there is no compulsory taxation, that they’d say I’m an anarchist. I tell people I’m an anarchist.