Here’s some free advice. Even if you’re innocent, don’t talk to the police. Their job is to get you talking and send you to prison.
Teach your kids to not speak to the police, like she says.
Not speaking to the police isn’t rude. It is your constitutional right that men have paid for with their blood. The rude thing would be to disrespect the blood they’ve shed and go blabbing to the government so they can use your words against you in a court of law.